I know
this topic just caught your attention because this is what all of you have been
longing for for a very long time. Let's be clear, this blog is not here to
convey or convince you to change yourself or build a perception about the
people around you. I purely intend to put some light onto your thoughts and a
very little understanding about the human mindset of piling up with the worries
and blaming others in situations that is filled with void and stress. Not much
of your time will be consumed to an in depth observation about yourself and the
people around, who make you happy or sad or just all, together! Well, let me
tell you it doesn't matter and it shouldn't on how you feel and who made you
feel! Here lies the first truth, you 'decide' that people make you happy
or sad purely based on your feelings.
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| Be Free. Be You |
Think
about it, you will realise that you give people the authority to make you
feel optimistic or pessimistic about yourself. What happens when they don't
treat you the way you urged? You feel ill, your body reacts in a harsher or
subtler sensations. You're demented of your routines, you skip your meals, you
simply are at a peak to burst out, why? Because someone just told you something
which was unpleasant, which made you uneasy. I understand you just reacted to
something that wasn't pleasant, you just did it. So what? you would ask me. I
say it's okay, life is not the same and things change, blah...blah... blah...
fair enough to calm you down and most of your closed ones do that right? Especially, when
you are tumultuous.
After a
month of Sundays, is your second truth. A truth that sows the seeds of unpleasant
days and situations, in your close knit circle, you keep them updated and make
them equally depressed about your life's dilemma. Hello, wake up! you literally
added your sorrows to someone else's life. Your unhappiness has just found new
land, sowing unpleasant seeds in their bliss, without you realising it.
The
third and the most important truth is you depreciate yourself with the joy of this
very beautiful world, which gave you so many things to be grateful for - you
can breathe, you can walk, you have a family, you have a life!
In my
life, I've also seen, few of those, who start finding 'fault in their stars' -
maybe their horoscope says it's not the lucky colour neither their lucky number.
You know what - just stop right there and right now! It's not going to save any
of you in the long run. Look again, what are you doing to yourself? Reversing
you to the truth number one - you are associating yourself and your happiness
with the outer surroundings and situations rather than simply giving a thought
about your life and your feelings. Believe me, it's solely yours.
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| Define your own life... |
To conclude, my dear readers, this whole lot of ascendant read, there is just one
simple thing that I've learnt and experienced is that you can never and you
shouldn't associate yourself with 1. People 2. Situations 3. Aesthetic needs.
They all change with time and so will you. Be happy being who you are at this
very moment and enjoy the subtler things in life, enjoy the fresh air, enjoy
embracing the green grass, enjoy eating your own meals, all by yourself. This is
one of the key motivators to start your own happiness. This is that one purpose
you can work on all your life! Cheers to a prosperous new life and Happy Diwali!
